Thoughtfulness and Other Things
I went to
UPS today to return some Amazon things. I had an armful as I approached the
door. I young girl in front of me just went in without holding
the door. This reminded me of Q. He was
taught to hold the door for anyone. He also opened the car door for me and his
grandmother. He always said please and thank you. Q placed his napkin on his
lap before eating. When we finished a meal
he would get up and help loading the dishwasher. Q always said, “I love you”
once a day. People ask me how I am now that I don’t have Q. These are the small
things, sweetness and thoughtfulness that I miss most. You raise a child to a
young man and suddenly he is gone in the blink of an eye. Despite this you will
always have the memories that are imprinted on your mind.